Stating the obvious, we all know that loners love being alone. Dating a loner is not an easy task. Even if you have immense love in your relationship, there will be times when you may find it difficult to be in the relationship.
You may feel that your partner isn’t interested in things to do. Even if you are in the middle of something, your partner may express the desire to be left alone in an abrupt manner.
For example, you may be watching a movie when your partner may want to spend some alone time. There can be times when you may not be able to call your partner or see each other and still, your partner won’t be mad at you.
To help you in having a wonderful and healthy relationship with your loner partner; Here are the five things you need to know:
1. Your partner may not show up at parties
If you are a party lover and expect your partner to come along with you every time, then you may be disappointed. This is because your partner will sulk in a corner or try to leave the party as soon as possible. He/she may not like the idea of being the life of the party or socialising with people present at the party. This can be because your party enjoys being alone.
2. Your partner may vanish from a crowded place
Even if you have somehow managed to drag your partner to a party and begged him to stop sulking in a corner, he/she may vanish from the scene in no time. Whether it is a crowded shopping mall or an amusement park, you may not be able to stop him/her from leaving the spot and going back to his/her solitude. No matter how hard you try, you may not be able to make your partner enjoy the scene.
3. Your partner may not like socialising with people
This is one of the important things that you need to know if you are dating a loner. Doesn’t matter if you are garrulous, you need to understand that your partner may not like socialising at all. He/she may not find it comfortable enough to reach out to someone and then share his/her thoughts and opinions. Instead of forcing your partner to socialise with new people, you can help him/her to get out of the comfort zone.
4. Your Partner May Prefer Reading A Book
If you have already booked tickets for a show tonight, then we will advise you to discuss the plan with your partner. Your idea for a perfect weekend can be having a great time watching a movie in the theatre or dancing your heart out at a concert but for your partner, things can be different. He/she may not be interested in having lunch with friends at a restaurant or go shopping. Instead, your partner may want to read a book while sitting in the park and enjoying the fresh air.
5. Your partner may ask you to leave him/her alone
So, if your partner asks you to leave him/her alone for some time, then please do not feel bad about it. It is not that your partner is bored with you or wants to get rid of the relationship. You don’t have to feel disheartened and heartbroken. This is because being a loner, your partner may want to be left alone for some time. This can be his/her way of rejuvenating himself/herself.
