Not every guy in the world is 100% honest all the time when it comes to how he feels.
You know the drill when you meet a new guy, things are going great – but you have this doubt in the back of your mind.
“Is he into me?”, “Is he thinking about me?”, “How can you tell when a guy likes you?” You don’t want to make the wrong move or read into something that isn’t there and embarrass yourself!
When you know what to look for, you’ll be able to clearly see signs a guy likes you, and that he cares about you as more than a friend.
This way, you can avoid confusion, kickstart your relationship, or at the very least give you some inner peace and clarity with your situation…
If you’ve been dating a guy for a while and are starting to catch some serious feelings, don’t just rely on his disclosure to let you know if he feels the same.
Here are 7 signs he truly think about you:
1. He’s honest
If he cares about you, he’ll be honest with you. Ironically enough, he might not be super honest about how he feels about you in the beginning, which is why this is so frustrating and confusing. But he will generally tell the truth about all kinds of other topics and situations.
2. He respects your space
Though it may make you freak out, a guy who gives you enough space may just be subconsciously letting you know how important you are to him. We usually think of dudes who smother us with attention as the ones with the strongest feelings, and the ones who remain distant as not interested. There’s a difference between never wanting to spend time with you and allowing you the space you need. Even though he may want to see you, a guy who really cares may sense that you’re really under the pump at work or having a few family issues, or just simply need a bit of time to yourself.
3. He does things he hates
A guy who makes sacrifices for you is a guy who cares. They don’t have to be dramatic, storybook-type sacrifices, like giving up his job or leaving his home or anything that intense. They’re usually not even obvious. When he starts going out of his way to do things that he doesn’t really enjoy, it’s pretty clear that he cares about you more than you thought he did.
4. He texts anytime
If you’re getting random texts from him constantly, it could be a sign that he has caught feelings. We’re not just talking about the standard texts when there’s actually something to talk about, but a guy who cares about you will often send the totally unnecessary texts we all love getting that say “How was your day?” to “I’m freezing my face off today” or even the texts containing nothing more than a single emoji. In truth, they actually mean more than the serious texts, because he’s literally just sending them to communicate with you.
5. He remembers the small details
When you really like someone, you are normally ultra-aware and switched on when they are around. Even if you are usually a blasé person, you will find yourself paying attention to what he says and how he says it. So a guy who cares more about you than everyone else will really listen to the things you say, whether he wants to or not, and will remember the finer details.
6. He fits you in
While he totally give you some space so you can be yourself and live your own life, he’ll also make the effort to fit you into his life and his schedule. If he has it his way, he’ll want to see you and spend time with you as much as possible. No matter how much he’s working or how many other commitments he has, a guy who cares will fit you in.
