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Deinise Zimba has taken to her social media to reveal the struggle she is facing being a full time wife and mother.


The star had her child over a year ago and she is saying it has not been easy for her.

Deinise said: “To say that I’m exhausted is an understatement. I AM GONE WITH THE DAMN WIND!!” Wrote Denise.

 “I had my Leah a year plus and I am still going through it. I finally took the courage to get myself back and do WHAT MAKES ME HAPPY … Talk about sacrifice. Nothing like being a first-time mom and wife, and wanting to be whole again, without the titles …”

Although, she said she is getting her life back but this year has been the hardest for her.

“Anyone who knows me, knows I tell it like it is, what you see is what you get. This year has been the hardest for many of us, and the effects of it has yet to crippled us for some time. With life comes challenges, and decisions to follow. Whatever it is you decide, make sure it has pure intentions because the aftermath of that will always fall back on you, one way or another.”

Deinise however, urge other mothers out there to stop being hard on themselves.

“To moms who have realized that for the most part, this motherhood thing has BEEEEN glamorized, stop being hard on yourself. Even that is overrated. Do what the fuck you need to do to get through these tough days. Thank heavens for milestones – the recharge you will forever need!!”

Deinise continued: “I have days when I just don’t want to do it anymore. But somehow the universe has designed specific journeys to allow strength to prevail, so hang on and hang in there.

“When you see a somewhat polished pic I’ve posted, it’s a good day or a scheduled post day.”

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To say that I’m exhausted is an understatement. I AM GONE WITH THE DAMN WIND 😖🤣 !! I had my Leah a year plus and I am still going through it. I finally took the courage to get myself back and do WHAT MAKES ME HAPPY … Talk about sacrifice. Nothing like being a first time mom and wife, and wanting to be whole again, without the titles … Anyone who knows me, knows I tell it like it is, what you see is what you get. This year has been the hardest for many of us, and the effects of it has yet to crippled us for some time. With life comes challenges, and decisions to follow. Whatever it is you decide, make sure it has pure intentions because the aftermath of that will always fall back on you, one way or another. To moms who have realized that for the most part, this motherhood thing has BEEEEN glamorized, stop being hard on yourself. Even that is overrated. Do what the fuck you need to do to get through these tough days. Thank heavens for milestones – the recharge you will forever need 😁🤗!! I have days when I just don’t want to do it anymore. But somehow the universe has designed specific journeys to allow strength to prevail, so hang on and hang in there. When you see a somewhat polished pic I’ve posted, it’s a good day or a scheduled post day. This I call a ‘FUCK IT’ day – with a young filter as a reminder!🤣 #okDenise #behindthemusic #liveyourtruth #africaunite

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