When it comes to relationships, men try their best to find out if their partners are genuine and trustworthy.
Similar to women, men too want to invest their emotions and time in a genuine and caring woman. But there are times when you may end up doing some creepy things without even realising the same.
You may think that you are doing the right thing but then you may end up intimidating the other person. At times you may end up ruining your impression in front of your partner.
In order to know what those things could be, scroll down the article to read more.
1. Bragging about your achievements
You might have achieved various things in your life but that doesn’t mean you need to brag about the same. If you think bragging about your achievements in front of every girl you meet will make you superior then you may be wrong. You need to understand that genuine women do not greed for your money and achievements. In fact, they may get annoyed and irritated.
2. Non stop texts and calls
Are you on your toes to get minute by minute updates about her daily life, that too when you have just entered her life? Trust us this can be one of the biggest turn off for her. She may get irritated in no time and consider you a conservative person. Just because she didn’t reply to your messages or responded to your calls, that doesn’t mean you will call/text her continuously. This can really ruin your chances of becoming a potential boyfriend.
3. Jumping to dirty talks
Turning the conversation towards sex and all will make a woman think that you just want to be laid down. She may consider you a creepy person who is eager to have a physical relationship as soon as possible. Instead of jumping to the ‘s’ word, it is advisable that you build trust and emotional intimacy with your partner.
4. Stalking her everywhere
We understand that you may be eager to know more and more about her and for this, you may go through her social media accounts and posts. But then there’s a difference between stalking her and trying to know her. Going through her social media posts and hitting the like button on each and every post along with the audacity to comment on the same, clearly indicate cyber stalking. After all, no woman would enjoy waking up to have 100 notifications from the guy she has just met. She may get intimidated and would reconsider her decision of dating you.
5. Being possessive right from the beginning
Loving a woman doesn’t give you the right to rule on her. If you think that you have the right to put restrictions on her and control her social life, then you need to stop doing so. Considering possessiveness to be true love can be your mistake as love is not about controlling your partner. It’s about loving and allowing each other to live an independent life.
6. Taking things too fast
You may feel that you have found your soulmate and so you want to marry her. But taking things too fast can turn the tables. Instead of giving her hints to marry, you can try spending more and more time with her. Doing so will strengthen your bond and bring you closer. You can also prove yourself to be a potential life partner. This way you can make your partner believe that you will be a good spouse and so she might agree for marriage.
7. Being too clingy
Let’s get this straight, nobody would like to be with someone who’s clingy. Just because you have found a great partner and can’t stay apart, that doesn’t mean you will always stick to her. You need to understand that your partner too has an independent life. Let your partner enjoy her own life too. Otherwise things may turn out to be unexpected.
8. Not allowing her to pay
It’s good that you want to take care of all the needs of your lady love. You may want to shower gifts on her and buy various things for her. While you are doing so, make sure you acknowledge that women too love being independent and taking care of their expenses. There are women who do not like when men pay for everything. So instead of pulling out your wallet and paying the bills, you can suggest splitting the bill.
