Love is a force of nature. Love is bigger than you are. You can invite love, but you cannot dictate how, when, and where love expresses itself.
You can choose to surrender to love, or not, but in the end, love strikes like lightning, unpredictable and irrefutable.
You can even find yourself loving people you don’t like at all. Love does not come with conditions, stipulations, addenda, or codes.
Love is the most intense feeling of them all. It is the reason the world spins but in some relationships love simply fades away. And here are the 5 reasons why that happens:
1. Love dies because of a lack of trust
The most important thing in love is trust. If trust is not present, the relationship won’t end up well. That’s why you and your partner need to learn how to create this kind of trust.
Most couples only think of trust in terms of being sexually faithful. But that is not correct. There is so much more than just being faithful in a relationship.
2. Love dies because of old lies
I know many couples who finished their relationship because of old lies. You know, old lies hurt. And if you repeat the same thing, it will hurt even more.
So, never take your loved one for granted. Never lie to them because you don’t want them lie to you too. Be a dedicated and loving partner because that is the only way your relationship can work.
3. Love dies because of fear
Love, unfortunately dies because of fear. You catch yourself with a man and you start thinking what you will do if things don’t work out between the two of you.
And since you can’t stand that pressure, you decide to end up everything. But that is the worst thing you can do. You should never let your fear paralyze you.
4. Love dies because it wasn’t built on a solid foundation
If your relationship was built on sex, trust me, it won’t last forever. But the one who was built on love and mutual trust, has some potential to be the love of your life.
So, when you start a love relationship, always choose the right things. Choose love, choose trust, honesty, open communication. That is the only way it will work.
5. Love dies because of unrealistic expectations
We all have some expectations in love and that is pretty normal. What is not normal is when those expectations are not real. A person who does that is called love addict in an addictive relationship.
They are individuals who think they deserve it all while they put zero effort into a relationship. And I don’t need to even mention that something like this will never end up well.
On the other hand, there are people who are abusive but they believe their partners should stay with them because they are special and unique. In this case, things do not end well.
