In 2021, you’ll probably date more than one man and some of them will even become your long-term partners.
Well, if you’re one of those people who always start another January with some New Year’s resolutions, here’s a suggestion: This time, decide to at least try to save yourself from a heartbreak.
Of course, you can never be too careful when it comes to men whose only goal is to hurt you, but if nothing else, you can avoid certain type of guys. Not all deserve your attention and time.
Here are the 6 types of men you shouldn’t date this year:
1. The one who doesn’t know what he want
Let this year be the one where you’ll finally finish with all the almost-relationships, NSA relationships, casual flings, and other undefined situationships.
Let go of all the guys who refuse to put a label on your relationship, who disappear and reappear in your life the way they want, and who are too immature to commit.
2. The insecure one
Another type of guy you’ll be better off without this year are the ones with a huge ego yet incredibly low self-esteem. The men who are just looking for a victim they can heal their insecurities through.
Men who have trouble loving themselves and, therefore, can never truly love you either.
3. The one with the emotional baggage
The last thing you want to become is a man’s rebound and a third wheel in someone else’s on-and-off relationship, without even being aware of it.
This guy’s emotional baggage will ruin your relationship before it even starts. You’ll end up getting yourself dragged into someone else’s problem that you have nothing to do with – and who wants that?
4. The one who wants to change you
The same way you shouldn’t get yourself involved with a man you want to change, you shouldn’t date a man who has the intention of changing you either.
Stay away from guys who already have an image of their perfect girlfriend and want you to fit in that box, without taking your individuality into consideration.
5. The player you hope to change
How many times have you met a player who has more than one girl at his hands at a time? The charming man who knocked you off your feet at first glance, who knows exactly what to tell you and what to do to get under your skin?
This is another man you shouldn’t date in 2021 because he’s actually just trying to get in your pants. I know he’s hard to resist, but trust me when I tell you, you’re not the only girl digging his stories.
6. Your ex
Finally, please don’t go back to your ex this year. Leave the past in the past where it belongs and take a leap into the bright future that awaits you.
I know you think you still love this guy, but trust me, this is just because you haven’t had the chance to run into someone worthy of your attention. Every time you think about making up with him, just recall all the reasons you two broke up in the first place.
