Actress Buhle Samuels has taken to her social media to call out men who feels they are entitled to everything a woman has most especially their time or space.
Taking to her Twitter, the star wonders how men behave the way they do as she let them know she won’t tolerate any disrespect from them all in the name of relationship or love.
Although, Buhle did not say if she she is talking out of experience but she gave an instance where some men see women sited alone in a restaurant or bar and feel the need to join them without first asking if their interruption is welcome.
“Men, why do some of you feel the need to walk up to ladies you don’t know pull up a chair and seat yourself? What manners are these? I hate that thing! It’s so arrogant to assume that your interruption is welcome. Nigazosidina maan!”
Men, why do some of you feel the need to walk up to ladies you don’t know pull up a chair and seat yourself? What manners are these? I hate that thing! It’s so arrogant to assume that your interruption is welcome. Nigazosidina maan! 😑
— Buhle Samuels (@BuhleSamuels_) January 11, 2021
Buhle went on to share how she feels about this issue ahs caught the attention of so man wanting understand which approach women preferred, others were already claiming that women “don’t know what they want”.
One tweep went as far as saying Buhle would probably not say the same thing if it was Duduzane Zuma who interrupted her space.
Oh hello no, he will be put in his place! Not everything is about entertaining your desire as a man. I might be in a meeting/convo that has no time for your love sick puppy antics! That’s why some of you are punching above your weight, u can’t see a lady if she had a neon sign.
— Buhle Samuels (@BuhleSamuels_) January 11, 2021
See her tweets below:
Oh hello no, he will be put in his place! Not everything is about entertaining your desire as a man. I might be in a meeting/convo that has no time for your love sick puppy antics! That’s why some of you are punching above your weight, u can’t see a lady if she had a neon sign.
— Buhle Samuels (@BuhleSamuels_) January 11, 2021
Ask,don’t just seat yourself and if I say no respect that
— Buhle Samuels (@BuhleSamuels_) January 11, 2021
Approach and let the lady know your interested if she says yes or gives you signals that she’s interested then continue but if you hear no twice. Then take your L and live happily ever after
— Buhle Samuels (@BuhleSamuels_) January 11, 2021
That’s why it’s important to know when your punching above your weight so you don’t use the wrong tools to get the job done. Customisation of tactics is imperative
— Buhle Samuels (@BuhleSamuels_) January 11, 2021
Hunting is fine, but lack of manners is not! It will never be charming to be rude no matter how keen your efforts are. Apology accepted
— Buhle Samuels (@BuhleSamuels_) January 11, 2021