Have you ever seen or heard of a situation where a woman who isn’t particularly gorgeous or “seductive” somehow has men chasing her and constantly trying to hit on her?
I am sure you have come across a woman like this, who somehow effortlessly has men wildly attracted to her. And not just any men. What is it that “those kind” of women are doing that makes them so irresistible?
Well, in this article I will take you through some of the most common and universally applicable things you can do to make yourself more attractive to men and attract the man you want.
1. Manage your mood
Men are instinctively attracted to happy women. When you are in a good mood, he feels this pleasant vibe when he is around you.
Men can sense your vibe and you don’t have to say anything to make it come across; in fact, the less you “try” to “prove” what a good mood you are in and the more you focus on actually being in a good mood, the better off you will be.
2. Have fun
Do things you enjoy. Take the time out to do fun things in your life where you can let loose and really laugh and have fun with things.
Whether it’s going out with friends and having a good time or spending time with family and living life in a happy, fun way. Experience life in the moment and don’t dwell on trivial things that don’t matter.
3. Don’t compare yourself to other women
I understand the instinct to compare yourself to other women and to other people in general. Maybe you see another woman and you think to yourself, “if only I had ….” (insert whatever it is that you wish you could change about yourself that she has).
The reason I am saying to you this is because when you compare yourself, all you do is make yourself feel miserable and frustrated. The best thing to do is be your best self and focus on things you can control and improve upon. This will make you feel good.
4. Do what feels comfortable
You might have heard that wearing a wacky outfit, getting a strange sex toy contraption or doing some super sensual and risqué is the only way to attract a man.
Forget all of this. Trying to “do things” that you are completely uncomfortable with because you think it will attract a man is a horrible idea because you will not be comfortable.
5. Know yourself
Self-discovery is an ongoing process that we all go through in our lives. We are always growing and changing as people.
This is an important step when it comes to being attractive: get to know yourself as much as you can and this will automatically make you feel more confident and comfortable.
6. Makeup
Every man has different preferences when it comes to makeup, but there is a consistent theme with what most men seem to find attractive.
With that said, a good application of makeup can certainly transform a woman’s look so definitely don’t be afraid to put on makeup.
7. Fitness/diet
Being as fit as you possibly can and making healthy eating choices (healthy eating choices not starving) is the key to looking your best.
Listen to your body don’t try to look how you naturally can’t look without having to starve or be unhealthy. This is key. Healthy is hot.
8. Clothing
Clothing can make a big difference when it comes to being attractive to men. Now, the main thing is that you wear clothes that fit your body well and accentuate your best assets.
Now I am not saying to go out in stripper heels and a nonexistent dress that shows almost your entire body. Unless this is what you like and it makes you feel good, but don’t do that because you think it’s going to make men more attracted to you.
