We often feel confused or taken for granted in a toxic relationship. Rarely the first relationship becomes our last.
We get heartbroken and hurt ourselves before we finally find that one person who is worthy of our love.
However, when that one person comes, you finally understand what it’s like to be in a deserving relationship with a caring partner.
Relationships aren’t easy to manage and that is why you should know when to give your 100%. Here are few signs that you are in a deserving relationship with a supportive partner.
1. They know what matters
It is not essential to have the same hobbies or interests as your partner when in a relationship. When you are in a healthy relationship, you will notice that things that matter to you are equally important for your partner. You don’t have to ask them to prioritize your essentials.
2. They listen to you
You don’t have to repeat every detail with them. While you explain your fun trip from last year, they pay attention and remember the details. They know all about the stressful and happy times of your life and do their best to support you.
3. You both can talk about anything
It is crucial to talk about the issues rather than brushing them under the carpet. Talking about things that make you uncomfortable or unhappy isn’t a challenging task anymore with them. Their presence, itself makes you ease up and calm down.
4. They keep their promise
Even a small task like fixing the doorknob is done on the day as they promised. That’s how dedicated they are to keeping their promises. This is an important aspect to notice while deciding to keep them for a long period in your life.
5. Respecting boundaries
It is crucial to understand and respect each other’s boundaries in all areas of the relationship. If you are feeling uncomfortable about any issue, they should understand and not pressure you. They can take a “no” and vice versa without feeling guilty or making you upset.
6. Equal importance to priorities
If your priority at the time is your career, then it is so for them. They will support and understand you rather than making you feel guilty about your choices. There can be a chance that they disagree, but they won’t look down on you.
7. Knowing the limit in public
Whether physical or emotional, they should never cross the line anywhere. If they know that a particular thing will hurt you but carry on to do so, they aren’t good for you. Even a light joke and subtle banter that portrays your weakness or make you vulnerable is a sign of toxic behaviour.
