Losing your v*rginity is no big deal. Or that’s what everyone tells you. When you feel ready to connect with someone that intimately, you should be prepared in every way.
Whether it’s about dealing with the pain or having protection nearby, just before a sexual intercourse.
Losing your virginity can be an extremely pivotal moment for you, while for some others, it’s something to just get over with.
If you’re planning to lose it anytime soon and are super worried about it, then don’t fret. Here listed are some of the things you should know before losing your virginity.
1. There’s more to sex than what you think
Sex isn’t just about intercourse. It’s about foreplay, oral sex and a lot of touching here and there. You can lose your virginity even by masturbating or when your partner stimulates you with their fingers.
2. You won’t actually hear your hymen breaking
Myths have it, you actually hear a POP sound when your hymen tears off during sex. Your hymen is a loose tissue that tears off without any sound. But that’s not it. For some, it may or may not be a very hurtful experience. Once it’s done, there’s only pleasure!
3. Nothing is going to change
Your appearance won’t change once you lose your virginity. Moreover, you might even glow a little bit due to the amazing sex! Your hormones will rage even more and you might even have the urge to indulge in more sex.
4. It’s not going to be a mess
All those movies that have shown how messy first-time sex can be with blood, are not really true. It’s not going to be a bloody mess. There might be some blood but not so much that it will stain the entire bed. It’s always handy to keep some towels nearby.
5. You need to get comfortable
The more comfortable you are, the more chances you get to achieve an orgasm. When you’re comfortable, you will receive enough stimulation to reach your climax. But feeling tense while having sex the first time is quite natural and so, you should accept the fact that you may not get an orgasm, and that’s alright.
