Though being in a romantic relationship is a great place to be, not everyone succeeds in winning over all its ups and downs.
This results in the couple falling apart, with both the individuals hurt and broken. Undoubtedly, there is no point in being in a relationship that is not right for you.
But if you feel there is a glimmer of hope left, do consider giving your partner one last chance.
Additionally, do ask yourself the following questions before considering breaking up with your partner.
1. “What initially attracted me to my partner?”
Think back to when you first met your partner, and reflect on why you were first drawn to them. It is very natural for everyone to grow as an individual while in a relationship. Sometimes, we are so fixated on how they were when we met them, that we fail to see the person they are today. And this is a very big point of dissatisfaction among couples.
2. “What are my priorities?”
Although you don’t have to share exactly the same goals as your partner, it’s important to have at least similar visions for the future you want to share together. This can help you figure out whether your current partner is right for you or not.
3. “Do I feel loved?”
If you don’t feel loved by your partner, that can take a serious toll on the relationship. You don’t need to have the same love language as your partner, but you both need to know how you two prefer to express and receive love.
4. “Do we have communication problems?”
No matter how much you love your partner, if you have very conflicting views on how best to communicate your problems, it might salvage your relationship. If you and your partner can’t get on the same page about communicating your problems, it might be best to part ways.
5. ”Do I need to work on myself?”
Even if your partner has done nothing wrong, sometimes you might consider a break-up because you feel you need to spend some time alone. There is nothing wrong with taking time to be single and work on other aspects of your life. It will make you more confident and more aware of what to look for in your next partner.
6. ”Am I happy?”
Most importantly, before breaking up with someone, ask yourself if you are truly happy, or if you are yearning for more from a new relationship.
7. “What do I stand to lose?”
Think about what is at stake after you break-up with your partner. If there is a lot to lose in terms of love, companionship, and emotional connect, you can think of giving your relationship one last try. However, if it comes at the cost of your mental health and self-respect, there is no point in being in the relationship.
