Dineo Ranaka has taken to her social media to talk about her failed marriage.
Yesterday, the star revealed that she is no longer single stating she’s in love and her radio co-host, Sol Phenduka can testify.
Well, Dineo reflected on her failed marriage stating that she had to forgive herself countless times for choosing a terrible husband.
She shared a video of a Muslim preacher talking about picking the right partner.
Dineo stated that her marriage with her abused ex-husband was ugly and her spirit started to turn ugly.
“I had to forgive myself countless times for choosing a terrible husband. It was ME I had to forgive because it was me that made that choice. I had to accept that it was all me. Mind you terrible is an understatement. The most abusive man I’ve ever met and his abusive nature was met with my retaliation which was equally terrible. The marriage was UGLY to the point where my spirit started to turn ugly!”
She then advised those who are just planning to get their partner to pray about it and also those who are already in it to find courage to leave.
“If you are in the process of choosing a spouse, I pray you do better by praying over it and not trusting your own judgment. And if you are already in it with a terrible spouse, I pray you find the courage to get out!!! I was married to him for less than the duration of a full term pregnancy but it was enough for me to receive the darkest revelation of my lifetime. Am I triggered by thoughts of him or the mention of his name? Oh no, not at all. Do I miss him? Who misses being beaten up and cheated on like their life has no value?!? Have I forgiven him, yes! But I hope he has forgiven himself. Moral of the story: we know no better than God. And it is true… some people will only switch up on you once you are married to them, and then that’s when you see go re vok mahn, Motho o ke lesepa la motho !! As it stands today, my God I am blessed!! And the blessing is in that I am free from the captivity of my own wrong choices”
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