Good sex has always been different from the ‘duty’ kind of intimacy.
It has different moods and personalities because, sometimes it craves that deep, emotional kind of sex and other times, it wants nothing but kink.
Ultimately, the kind of sex you enjoy depends on how you connect with your partner.
You might be a very conservative couple but, can I challenge you to think outside the box for a minute?
You’ll be surprised at how much kinky sex can enhance your connection. And to get you started, here are a few ideas you could try.
1. Record yourselves
I know, I know, there are so many risks that come with having a video of yourself having sex. And granted, it is scary to think of what might happen if you ever have a nasty breakup.
But, you only live once and if you have a strong level of trust in your relationship, do it. It will be mind-blowing when you see yourselves from a different perspective plus, it is a huge turn on too.
If you’re a bit hesitant, you can only have the video for a short time and delete it.
2. Take oral sex to the next level
There are a number of creative ways you can orally please your man. One way is to make it sweet for you by trying out oral sex candy or even something basic from your kitchen like strawberry syrup or whipped cream.
You can also try and give surprise oral pleasure often to bring more excitement.
3. Try erotic massages
An erotic massage isn’t anything like the one you would get at a spa. This massage ignites all your senses and this can really give you a new experience with your partner.
To make it even more sensual, play some relaxing music, light up some scented candles, dim the lights a little and most importantly, use the right techniques.
If you want to learn how to do it, search on the best way to do it and which pleasure points you should focus on.
4. Get kinky in front of a mirror
Doing it in front of a mirror is a concept that we assume only works in movies. You might be worried about looking and feeling awkward but, the whole point is to overcome those worries and have fun together.
If you don’t have a mirror close to your bed, you can decide to shop for a full mirror that you can use to watch yourselves trying out interesting positions.
5. Play a raunchy game
Intimacy games have inspired many couples to rethink how sex should be. They are challenging, they enhance intimacy and, they always have a great ending-which is amazing sex.
It will be interesting to explore different game plots so grab yourselves an erotic game soon. And by the way, you can also turn a simple game like poker into strip poker. It’s all about exploring your imagination.
6. Take it to a different location
It will also be interesting to come up with a list of (private) locations you would want to have crazy sex in. This will bring a whole new meaning to staycation for you guys, and it will be an exciting thing to try.
If there are hotels locally that you’ve always wanted to visit, make them part of your kinky bucket list.
