Spouses and partners often tend to cheat in their relationship because they feel it is not the same anymore and that the excitement is gone.
Scroll down and see the four things that a man should try before succumbing to cheating on their partner.
You never know, it may change the dynamics and become what you always wished for!
1. Adding some spice
If the relationship has become so boring that you are looking out for someone else or another person is attracting you, why not add some spice yourself? To spice up the sex life, you can try different positions, add romantic surprises and dates to see if it becomes exciting like before. Bring in sex toys because a lot is available in India now. If it is about compatibility, bring in a marriage counsellor and work on it!
2. Do activities together
To be a good partner, marriage takes a lot and that includes doing activities and chores together. Bring her flowers, even the candies that she loves would work. Decorate the house. Sometimes it is good to offer to be her cook for the day even if you are bad at it! Helping in the chores you run away from, would make her see you in a different light. You need to show love to be loved and to have good sex as well, being a partner is very important.
3. Break from the kids
Sometimes, when the kids are in the picture, women automatically become the loyal parent, concentrating on the kid and the men feel left out. This happens because they do not see anyone else taking on the responsibility. To deal with this, have a parent to look after the child at times while you give yourselves a day off and go on dates. Let her feel light. The best would be that you both divide the kid chores between you. She feeds, you take care of the homework. Take your child down for playing so that your wife can relax for an hour or two at least. Share the burden.
4. Talk!
Communication is the key to a blissful marriage. Tell your partner that something is missing. Be open to listen to her issues with you and you tell her yours. Work on it together because no other person can cement it.
Before you cheat, do the above things. You will see the change yourself.
