We need to investigate the claim properly, and we have come up with some reasons why love without money still makes sense.
1. You are sure they love you for you
When you have money, you easily get confused about why they love you. Do they love you for who you are or for what you give? Love without money is the purest form of love.
2. Real romance is devoid of materialism
Taking you out of the country in a jet, and buying you the latest gadgets, flowers or clothes doesn’t mean they love you.
Love is about respect, kindness and selflessness, and it cannot be bought. It was Jennifer Lopez who said love don’t cost a thing and she was right.
3. You can build together
That you started without money doesn’t mean you will remain in poverty. Most of our parents started from scratch with each other. Both of you should spend time building each other’s life and wealth so you can do a ‘how we started’ vs ‘how we ended’ picture.
4. You are truly intimate
Intimacy sometimes doesn’t mean eating at the finest restaurant meanwhile you both are on your phones and only interested in posting for Instagram. Sometimes, sharing a meal you cooked together and paying attention to each other is the height of intimacy.
5. You can be focused on your path
Getting married to someone because of what they can give to you is always a bad idea. You should rather be focused on having your own. You both should have money. It’s an imbalance if one has one and the other is leeching on the other person.
