Sometimes, couples reach a point where they are unable to love each other at all.
Despite trying a million times, they just don’t have the energy to solve the deep-ridden issues in the marriage and come out of it strong.
In such situations, couples let go of the bond they have with each other and give in to the fact that their marriage is over.
There comes a point where nothing can be fixed anymore and it is important to identify if your marriage is going in that direction or not, or else your mental and emotional health may be at great risk.
Here are the top 3 signs your marriage has been long over.
1. The loss of respect
A marriage is no longer intact when there is no respect between the partners. Once there is no respect, it becomes tough to hold onto the marriage as this is one of the most important foundations that a marriage is built upon. When there’s constant criticising and judgments, couples eventually lose all respect and in the end, there lies only resentment in the marriage.
2. Infidelity and refusing to end it
When one of the partners in a marriage engages in infidelity and refuses to end it anyhow, know that the marriage can’t be saved. No matter how much the other person tries to make their partner leave their affair behind, it can’t work unless the one who’s cheating is determined to leave their affair. And infidelity means a huge breach of trust and in this case, trust becomes almost impossible to gain back.
3. Physical or mental abuse
When abuse enters the picture, a marriage can’t be saved at all. There is no excuse when it comes to physical violence in a marriage and when this occurs, know that it’s time to leave the marriage. Staying in it will only invite more pain, whether it’s physical or mental. No person should endure the pain that comes with an abusive relationship.