Choosing a Maid of Honour for your wedding is a decision that shouldn’t be taken lightly.
The last thing any bride wants is to have a friendship ruined because of clashes during the days leading up to her big day.
The special role of Maid of Honour requires someone who embodies qualities beyond just friendship.
Someone who will offer unwavering support, lend a compassionate ear and celebrate your joy with genuine enthusiasm.
Here’s a guide to help you choose the perfect Maid of Honour.
1. Consider character
Loyalty: Look for someone who has consistently been there for you through thick and thin, offering unwavering support and loyalty.
Empathy and compassion: Choose someone who can truly understand and share your emotions, offering a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on during the sometimes stressful planning process.
Positivity and enthusiasm: Your Maid of Honour should be genuinely excited about your wedding and eager to celebrate with you.
Look for someone who radiates positivity and will bring a joyful energy to the occasion.
Organisation and dependability: While not the sole responsibility of the Maid of Honour, organisational skills can be a valuable asset.
Choose someone reliable and can help with tasks when needed.
2. Assess your relationship
Open and honest communication: Choose someone with whom you can openly and honestly share your hopes, fears, and any concerns you may have.
Mutual respect and trust: Your relationship should be built on mutual respect and trust.
Similar values: While you don’t need to be carbon copies of each other, sharing similar values and life goals can strengthen your bond.
Availability and commitment: Ensure your chosen Maid of Honour has the time and availability to dedicate to your wedding planning and be actively involved in the wedding day itself.
Budget: Consider the potential financial implications of the role.
While not always a primary factor, be mindful of any potential expenses associated with the position.
3. The ‘gut feeling’
Ultimately, the most important factor is your gut feeling.
Trust your instincts and choose the person who feels most right for the role.
