Ntando Duma says men with kids are turn-off
South African actress and producer Ntando Duma has sparked heated debate online after openly admitting that she is not interested in dating men who already have children.
The star, who tied the knot with musician Una Rams months ago and recently welcomed their baby girl, made the revelation during an interview on L-Tido’s podcast.
She explained that she has never dated a man with a child and that such men were never on her list of preferences.
While Ntando’s honesty was clear, her comments quickly set X on fire, with many dragging her for “double standards.”
Critics pointed out that Una chose to be with her despite her being a mother when they first got together.
Controversial social media commentator Chris Excel wrote: “This is what I always tell you brothers. Step fathers are the men that single mothers would not date if they didn’t have kids. The man who got her pregnant first was her type, not you. She’s with you because her type left her for better bums.”
Others echoed similar sentiments, with one user saying, “Why is she even on that podcast? She’s embarrassing that brother.”
Another added, “We were called bitter for saying her husband is a Simpopo, but she’s the one exposing red flags. Every week it’s something new, last week it was sexy pictures online, now this.”
This what I always tell you brothers
Step fathers are the men that single mothers would not date if they did not have kids..
The man who get her pregnant first was her type not you !!
She is with you because her type left her for better bums.
pic.twitter.com/QCh47kMsRS— ChrisExcel (@ChrisExcel102) August 22, 2025
