It’s a scenario no one wants to find themselves in: You look down at your left hand and notice that your wedding ring is missing.
First and foremost, avoid going into full panic mode. No matter what happens, it’s important to remember that it is your marriage that truly counts—not the jewelry that symbolizes your relationship. Rings can always be replaced.
Once you’ve put yourself in the correct headspace, it’s time to take action. Here, we’re sharing the six things to do as soon as you realize your wedding ring is missing.
1. Focus on finding the lost ring
Take a deep breath and focus your attention on finding the lost wedding or engagement ring. Determining approximately when and where the ring disappeared or was last seen will give you a place to begin your search. It will also increase the odds of unearthing it.
2. Retrace your steps
Once you’ve recalled the last time you had the ring on (or at least the last place you remember seeing it), it’s time to retrace your steps. It’s a good idea to enlist some of your loyal friends to come with you for extra sets of eyes.
3. Call in the experts
If the ring took a tumble down your drain, immediately call your plumber. If the ring accidentally fell into the sand during your honeymoon, the hotel staff or locals with a metal detector on hand may be able to help. Whatever you do, don’t take matters into your own hands in these types of scenarios, as you may ultimately cause more damage. Make sure to alert anyone who might contribute assistance with your plight, including your significant other. A team of devoted helping hands will be likelier to find the ring than on your own.
4. File an insurance claim
If you have insurance on your ring (which you absolutely should), immediately file an insurance claim. This step is important even if you’re still looking for the lost ring: It’s best to let your insurance company know as soon as possible that the ring was lost, ideally within 24 hours of it going missing. If you do end up finding it, you can cancel the claim and give an update to your insurance company. It’s always better to be safe than sorry.
5. Talk to your jeweler
Call the jeweler where you got the ring as soon as you can. It’s possible they might have another one in the same style. If not, they should be able to re-create a similar ring for you.
6. Get a temporary ring
Whether you lost your engagement or wedding ring (or both!), you might feel naked without that special piece of jewelry on your left hand. Instead of going without something entirely, choose to wear a temporary ring to symbolize your love and commitment. Most jewelers stock simple gold bands for reasonable prices, so you could certainly purchase something new, but feel free to shop your own jewelry box. If you have another ring you love, slip it on that important finger for the time being.
