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Valentine’s Day was never about love; here’s the real story

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Every year on 14th February, people around the world celebrate Valentine’s Day. Shops are filled with red roses, chocolates, and heart-shaped gifts. Couples go on romantic dates, and love messages flood social media.


But did you know that Valentine’s Day was never really about love? The history behind this day is not as romantic as we think. It actually has a dark and surprising past that many people don’t know.

So, how did this dark and brutal history turn into the modern celebration of love and romance? Let’s uncover the truth about how this day came to be.

A dark beginning in Ancient Rome

Valentine’s Day is believed to have started in ancient Rome, but not as a day of love. Instead, it was linked to a brutal festival called Lupercalia. This festival took place from 13th to 15th February and involved some shocking events.

Men would sacrifice animals and use their skins to whip women, believing it would make them fertile. There was also a matchmaking tradition where men and women were paired randomly for the festival.

The festival was wild and had nothing to do with romance as we know it today. However, as time passed, some parts of this festival influenced the Valentine’s Day we now celebrate.

How Valentine was created

There are different stories about Saint Valentine, but the most famous one is about a Christian priest named Valentine. During the time of Emperor Claudius II, marriages were banned for young soldiers because the emperor believed that single men made better warriors. Valentine, however, secretly performed weddings for couples who wanted to be together.

When the emperor found out, he ordered Valentine to be arrested. While in prison, Valentine is said to have healed a blind girl, and before he was executed, he wrote her a note signed “From your Valentine”. This is believed to be the first-ever Valentine’s message. Valentine was killed on 14th February, 269 AD, and later, the Catholic Church made him a saint.

From tragedy to romance

Even after Valentine’s tragic death, people still remembered him. In the Middle Ages, poets like Geoffrey Chaucer helped shape the idea of Valentine’s Day as a day for romance. He wrote a poem about birds finding their mates in mid-February, linking love and Valentine’s Day for the first time.

Later, people started writing love letters, and by the 1800s, Valentine’s Day cards became popular. Over time, businesses saw an opportunity to sell chocolates, flowers, and gifts, making it the commercial holiday we know today.

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