Lady Zamar gave an account of how she struggled in an abusive relationship for 2 years.
The singer said she was tired of wrong speculations and assumptions from fans and even articles. So, she needed to clear the air.
While she dished out her experience in a series of tweets, fans were quick to assume that it was Sjava.
The two were in a secret relationship for 2 years but it was made known when Sjava announced their split early this year.
Speaking about the abusive relationship, Zamar said:
“I was abused ( verbally and once sexually) and used.. I was lied to and cheated on.. Did I know.. No Did people tell me who knew?.. yes some.. got inboxes and calls .. Did I ask? Yes Did people I knew know what kind of man he is? Yes Did they protect him? His friends? Yes.
“So did you ask him about his wife? Nigga swears up and down he is not married.. So any more questions? I’ll answer.. I wish this was for attention.. I wish it was for float.. I wish it was for anything but the truth .. I’m just tired yo.”
“Surprising that I was invited to perform at this event on Sunday where the wife was coming.. The disrespect.”
“Spent a whole two years fighting within myself.. asking myself how does it happen to me? Me? Yami.. a whole Lady Zamar? How do you become a victim when all you’ve ever wanted was love? How do you survive? How do you piece your life together again.. How do you?”
Started therapy for about 8 months coz I thought I was going crazy, started having nightmares and nervous breakdowns.. it was hell.. my heart would especially break every time some I loved, respected, admired would tell me how how amazing he is.. I was devastated..
— MONARCH?? (@Lady_Zamar) October 29, 2019
“Couldn’t tell anyone coz I was ashamed, never confronted my abuser.. Can you believe for 5 months I couldn’t look this person in the eyes coz of sheer fear. But hey it’s over now.”
Despite all of the hurts experienced in the abusive relationship, the singer says she’s forgiven him.
“We don’t talk and I honestly forgave him coz my gosh I’d die if I didn’t..”
