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Watch: Dingaan Mokebe on why women and men find it difficult to go for who they want

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Dingaan Mokebe has taken to his social media to dish out advice to his people in terms of relationships.


The star shared a video of himself talking about women who play hard to get as he urge them to stop as they can live regretting later in future.

Dingaan also spoke to the men encouraging them to never be scared to shoot their shot.

The actor wonders why men and women don’t go for who they want as he asks men why they always had cold feet when it came to asking out their crush, and finding out later that their crush liked them too.

Dingaan asked: “So, gents tell me, have you ever had a crush on a girl but you are so scared to talk to this girl because you’re thinking ‘if I tell this girl she might not speak to me ever again’, or have you ever had a crush on a girl and was scared to talk to her only to find out that she also had the crush for you?

“And then you only realise later on when she’s taken or when you’re taken and you talk to her and you tell her of the time you wanted her but was scared to tell her. And then she says to you: ‘Why didn’t you talk cause I also liked you too?’ Have you ever been in that situation?”    

So as not to be partial, the start faced the women and asked why they always play hard to get when they have feelings or like the man.

The actor asked: “Ladies, have you ever played hard to get knowing very well that you want this guy but you played hard to get? And then when he was no longer interested and was with somebody else, that’s when you wanted him but he was no longer available? 

“Has something like that ever happened to you? I’m just thinking why do we have to complicate life like that? Why do you like playing hard to get?”

“Why do you care what he thinks of you. I mean, both of you are adults. Why do you play hard to get? Please, ladies, let me know, have you ever played hard to get and regretted it later? 

Dingaan concluded: “Maybe the guy you wanted is with somebody else and you see that he’s living a very nice like and you’re like, eish, that could’ve been my life right there.” 

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