It’s not always easy to identify bullying. In fact, sometimes the most subtle behaviors can be the most damaging.
Bullies often use phrases that seem harmless on the surface, but can actually be quite harmful to their victims.
Parents sometimes inadvertently say things that are similar to what bullies say. In this blog post, we will discuss some of the most common phrases that parents say that are often used by bullies.
1. “You’re too sensitive”
One of the most common phrases that bullies use is to tell their victims that they are “too sensitive.” This phrase can be incredibly damaging, as it invalidates the victim’s feelings and makes them feel like they are wrong for feeling the way they do. When a parent says this to their child, it sends the message that the child’s feelings don’t matter and that they should just toughen up. This can be incredibly damaging to the child’s self-esteem and can make them more likely to become a victim of bullying in the future.
2. Name calling
Bullies often use name calling as a way to insult their victims and make them feel bad about themselves. Parents should never call their children names, such as big head, even if they are angry. Calling a child names is never an acceptable way to discipline them, rather it will only make them feel ashamed and embarrassed. When a parent calls their child a name, it sends the message that the child is not good enough and that they are worth less than other people.
3. “Stop eating too much, you’re fat”
This is a phrase that is often used by bullies to make their victims feel ashamed of their bodies. When a parent says this to their child, it sends the message that the child’s body is not good enough and that they should try to lose weight. This can be incredibly damaging to the child’s self-esteem and can lead to eating disorders.
It is important for parents to be aware of the phrases that bullies use so that they can avoid saying them to their children. Bullying can have devastating consequences, and it is crucial that we do everything we can to prevent it. If you suspect your child is being bullied, please don’t hesitate to reach out for help. There are many resources available to victims of bullying, and there is no shame in seeking help.
