Signs of sexual incompatibility can also show based on how the sex feels. You can notice that the sex just feels awkward, maybe even painful regardless of which position you try.
In some cases this happens even when you don’t notice it but what do you do when things aren’t so great in the bedroom then?
However, we don’t advocate for testing to actually see if you’re compatible. You shouldn’t be quick to jump into bed with people you aren’t married to and a simple solution is to first have an open conversation to gauge your expectations.
Sexual incompatibility can also develop gradually even for married couples. Things might have been great at the beginning but as time goes on, it’s possible to lose that connection.
Here, honesty will prevent a lot of issues. You have to take a moment to communicate how you’re feeling because ignoring what is going on might hurt your relationship even more.
If you’re feeling that your needs are being ignored, say it so that you can deal with any deep issue that’s going on.
This is also a chance for you to try new things if you’re both open to it because you might discover that you’re both on the same page about exploring new things.
In case you’re not able to resolve this problem that is blocking your intimacy on your own, seek therapy. It could be that you need someone neutral to help you navigate through this situation together.
To conclude, the issue of sexual compatibility or incompatibility is a reality. And if it happens, there are many solutions as you move forward. Look for what works for you through open communication and if things don’t get resolved seek counselling.
