Problems regarding in-laws are very common among Indian households.
Many people face issues when it comes to controlling in-laws who can be very manipulative and harsh.
While you may not realise it initially, over time, signs of being emotionally controlled by your in-laws can seem quite clear.
To help you understand if you have manipulative in-laws, here are 5 signs you are being emotionally controlled by your in-laws.
1. Expressing opinions
If your in-laws are emotionally controlling you, you will notice that you can’t express your own opinions or make decisions without consulting your in-laws first. If you find yourself constantly seeking your in-laws’ approval before making any major decisions, it indicates that they are emotionally controlling you.
2. Negativity and criticism
If your in-laws often make negative comments or criticisms about you or your actions, then you need to be careful. Your in-laws may frequently criticize, belittle, or make negative comments about your choices. They may be trying to control your behaviour.
3. Giving decisive advice
You may notice that your in-laws are trying to give you unsolicited advice or are trying to dictate how and what you should do. You should be entitled to your own opinions and decisions. They shouldn’t impose their decisions on you.
4. Feeling guilty
You will notice that you feel guilty if you don’t follow your in-laws’ wishes or expectations. This is because they try to control your feelings and expectations as a daughter-in-law or son-in-law. You shouldn’t have to feel ashamed or guilty.
5. Emotional manipulation
This type of manipulation may not be easy to recognise but if your in-laws try to use guilt, threat or emotionally blackmail you, then it’s a clear sign that you are being emotionally controlled by them. They are trying to get you to do what they want.
