Lies are never okay. No matter how small or harmless a lie is, it’s still a lie.
Lying can destroy relationships within a fraction of a second because relationships are built on the foundation of trust and honesty.
And when your partner is leaning towards dishonesty and refraining from telling you the truth, it is important for you to find out why they have been doing so.
Nobody likes being lied to. But let’s find out why they have been doing so. Here are some reasons why your partner has been lying to you so much recently.
1. Infidelity
They are probably cheating on you. If enough evidence points out the truth that they are not faithful to you and are with other people, then this is a good enough reason why your partner may be straying away from you and is also lying.
2. Financial secrets
Your partner has been trying to hide financial problems from you. This may be the case where they are super worried about their financial condition and they don’t want you to worry more. They also may not want you to know about their borrowed money or gambling habits.
3. Doing something wrong
Your partner may be in some trouble that they don’t want you to know about. It may include getting into bad business, family problems and many other issues that they are probably not comfortable sharing with you.
4. Protecting secrets
Your partner may be protecting a few secrets of their own or someone else. If it’s the latter’s and they are persistent on not sharing it with you, then it is a good sign because they have promised the other person to not share their secret with anybody else. This means your partner is trustworthy.