5 ways to attract a healthy and available partner

Who does not want that typical Korean drama love to be true?

In today’s world where there seems to be some sort of angst and stress in each human, finding a healthy and available partner is tough.

Not only from the other person, but we must also first practice some things ourselves if we want a good partner.

Attracting a healthy and available partner requires self-awareness, intentional actions, and patience.

Here are five key ways to increase your chances of attracting such a partner.

Before seeking a relationship, focus on yourself, your own personal growth and your well-being. Cultivate self-love, confidence, and a positive mindset. Go for activities that bring you joy and fulfillment, pursue your passions, and address any unresolved emotional issues. When you radiate self-assurance and contentment, you’ll naturally attract others who appreciate and respect your strong sense of self.

Know your values, beliefs, and what you want in a partner. Establish clear boundaries and don’t settle for less than what you deserve. Communicate your expectations openly and be willing to walk away from relationships that compromise your principles. Healthy individuals are drawn to those who know their worth and are confident in expressing it.

Participate in activities aligned with your interests and values. This includes joining clubs, volunteering, or attending events that interest you. Engaging in activities you’re passionate about not only enriches your life but also increases the likelihood of meeting like-minded people who share your values and aspirations.

Honesty and open communication are important in any relationship. Work on your communication skills, both in expressing yourself and actively listening to others. Be authentic and genuine, allowing potential partners to see the real you. Effective communication fosters trust and a deeper connection with those you interact with, making it easier to attract someone who appreciates your sincerity.

Attracting a healthy and available partner takes time and patience. Don’t rush into a relationship out of loneliness or desperation. Take the time to get to know potential partners, observe how they treat others, and assess their emotional availability. Avoid getting attached too quickly. Remember that a healthy and lasting relationship is built on a solid foundation of compatibility and mutual respect.

1. A healthy relationship is a feast of affection/giving for both people; not one receiving crumbs and trying to convince themselves its enough. Shannon Thomas

2. When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are. Donald Miller

3. Every good relationship, especially marriage, is based on respect. If its not based on respect, nothing that appears to be good will last very long. Amy Grant

4. As long as you leave to others the responsibility to make you happy, you will always be miserable, because that is actually your job? Linda Alfiori