Thobeka Majozi finally breaks the long silence on her 32nd birthday, about her relationship with Cassper Nyovest.
The two famous socialites were lovers, and their union birthed a boy, Khotso.
Early this year, Cassper announced that his relationship with Thobeka, also known as Bexx Does It Better ended due to his infidelity.
Taking to Instagram this Wednesday, Thobeka announced it’s her birthday.
She goes ahead to pen a lengthy note on why this birthday is special; the influencer opened up about how she found out about Nyovest’s infidelity while taking care of their son who was battling with cancer.
“This birthday hits different. The last few years have been something & looking back now, I’m filled with gratitude. Who would’ve thought I’d be here. Not in pieces but in peace. The tears that were once in silent are now from laughing out loud. I’m actually in awe of the goodness of God. How am I so deserving of this unconditional love? His covering & grace? Even when I was unfaithful to Him. He remained faithful to me,” she wrote.
“I’ve always heard God is found in certain locations. I didn’t know I’d find Him at my lowest & most broken. At 8months my son was diagnosed with cancer. An entire different world. I always stood on protection & privacy. Trying to maintain “the world” & my world was a marathon on its own.
Majozi said Cassper tried to make amends after she caught him.
“I lived in an oncology hospital for 2 years with my son as he underwent chemotherapy & life-threatening surgeries. In the depth of fighting cancer. I was hit with a curve ball of infidelity. The woman knew me, my sons condition & made no mistake with flaunting their relationship. After finding out, he ended it with her & tried to make amends with me.”
Thobeka revealed in the note that, the woman Cassper Nyovest tied the knot with was the woman he was cheating with.
“I couldn’t trust someone who can hurt me at my lowest or allow another woman to disrespect his woman. Considering everything we had been through; it was more of the timing than the infidelity. He later married her.”
“In between home discharges & a new project I started. I had to stop my life, put aside my own emotions and show up for my baby. At the time, his health was more important than my heart. One thing we will do, is enjoy the world. Faith & family was the remedy to everything. Both families understood the mandate, living & loving is what we stand on.”
“Landed in the centre of Gods hands. He had me exactly where He needed me. I gave my life to Jesus. I entered the era of isolation. He placed me in His secret place. He worked my character, renewed my mind & restored my heart. The work hasn’t stopped. I die to self daily. He continues to mould me as the perfect potter He is. I’m fully in my Jesus girl era, walking in love & forgiveness. Most days are better than others. Yet peace remains. I’m yet to see what God has for me. More reason to celebrate life, today my son is cancer free & it’s all glory to God”
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