Matters of love and relationship are serious issues that are usually discussed on social media as people share their experiences and advice with others.
A Nigerian young man identified as Damilola Praiseworth, has recounted how he almost ruined his marriage even before it started because of a ‘harmless friendship’.
He admitted he still kept his ‘harmless friends’ and that they were used to having vulnerable and lengthy conversations.
It got to the point that he started deleting call history and chats so as to reassure his woman that he was keeping the end of their bargain.
Damilola said that he was also defensive whenever his woman raised concerns about his ‘harmless friend’. Thankfully, the young man realised that entertaining such conversations with another lady apart from his woman was cheating emotionally and that it would lead to infidelity, so he turned a new leaf.
I almost destroyed my marriage even before it began because I was hanging on to a ‘harmless friendship’. This would have cost me everything.
— Damilola Praiseworth (@Depraiz) May 18, 2020
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Without any more drama, I let go of the friendship and focused on my relationship which led to us being engaged and now married.
Now my wife is my safe space, and my only person in the whole world and so am I to her.
— Damilola Praiseworth (@Depraiz) May 18, 2020