A stereotypical introvert may be the one at the party who’s hanging out alone by the food table fiddling with a phone, but the “social butterfly” can just as easily have an introverted personality.
People are frequently unaware that they’re introverts ― especially if they’re not shy ― because they may not realize that being an introvert is about more than just cultivating time alone.
When an introvert cares about someone, he/she also wants contact, not so much to keep up with the events of the other person’s life, but to keep up with what’s inside: the evolution of ideas, values, thoughts, and feelings
Spotting an introvert can be harder than finding, cause a lot of introvert can pass for extrovert.
Here are the signs that shows you are secretly an introvert:
You find small talk incredibly cumbersome.
Introverts are notoriously small talk-phobic, as they find idle chatter to be a source of anxiety, or at least annoyance. For many quiet types, chitchat can feel disingenuous.
You go to parties -– but not to meet people.
If you’re an introvert, you may sometimes enjoy going to parties, but chances are, you’re not going because you’re excited to meet new people. At a party, most introverts would rather spend time with people they already know and feel comfortable around.
You often feel alone in a crowd.
Ever feel like an outsider in the middle of social gatherings and group activities, even with people you know? That shows you’re an introvert.
You’d rather be an expert at one thing than try to do everything.
You’re easily distracted.
While extroverts tend to get bored easily when they don’t have enough to do, introverts have the opposite problem — they get easily distracted and overwhelmed in environments with an excess of stimulation.
