You might think it’s harder to find a happy relationship as a strong, independent woman but honestly, your alpha status can lead to an incredible connection, so don’t change.
Being strong does not only help you in the race of life, it can also help you define your relationship in a meaningful way.
With that said, here are 7 reasons why love will be so much more amazing for you once you find it:
1. You don’t mess around
You’re not one for playing games in relationships, like being passive-aggressive or playing hard to get. You avoid mixed messages completely and expect the same from your partner. The result is that you both get real with each other. It’s the only way to be happy.
2. “Settling” isn’t in your vocabulary
You wouldn’t settle for someone average just because you’re tired of being alone. Hell no. As a strong woman, you know what you want and keep it in line with what you deserve. People call this “fussy” but you just don’t do mediocre. (Sorry not sorry.) The bonus is that when a man dates you, he knows you’re with him for the right reasons.
3. You need your space
Every now and then, you need to have some time to yourself in a relationship to do what you love, spend time with other people, and chase your passions. This is a must and it makes for a healthy relationship because you can’t be happy if you’re stifling your needs.
4. You’re extremely independent
If your boyfriend can’t accompany you to an event, you go on your own. You make your own choices and decisions without feeling like you’ve got to turn to your boyfriend for his nod of approval. This is good because it means that you don’t need to be looked after. Sure, you want a partner who cares about you and supports you, but you’re certainly not needy.
5. Your standard get met
A strong woman gets what she wants once she sets her eyes on it. If you want a certain partner, you don’t lower your standards to get him. You know that the right guy will rise to satisfy your standards. The bonus? As an alpha female, you’re also meeting his standards because you’re the full package.
6. You’re very confident
You know your worth and won’t let it depend on your partner’s opinions or approval. This makes you an amazing partner because you’re strong and believe in yourself, without any inhibitions. Needless to say, it also makes you great in the sack.
7. You don’t wait for life to come to you-you go get it
You won’t find yourself sitting around and wasting your time in a relationship if it’s starting to crumble. You’ve got better things to do with your precious time, like build your empire. This is awesome because it means you know you can be fine on your own without a man in your life, so you’re not clingy or desperate.
