Ladies, loving a man and giving your all in a relationship is definitely true love but losing yourself eventually is not.
Realising your true potential and running after a man aimlessly will only define you more as a weak woman whose world only revolves around her man.
Women are so much more than that. You are a person with a flourishing personality who should value her potential and individuality more.
Hence, here are the top 5 things a strong woman should never have to do for a man.
1. Changing yourself
You shouldn’t change yourself for your man. If he demands certain changes in your behaviour and personality traits to be more enticing, don’t do it. Your qualities are your own and if you want to change something to feel better about yourself, then go for it. But a man should never be the reason.
2. Changing your appearance
You are a goddess and your body is a temple. No matter the body shape, it’s yours and only yours to love and care forever. You shouldn’t entertain a man’s opinion on your body and how to make yourself look more ‘attractive’ to him. And if a man asks you to alter your appearance, he isn’t with you for love, but all the wrong reasons.
3. Waiting for approvals
You need no one’s approval but your own, woman! You’re smart, kind, intelligent and mature and definitely know the right decisions to take in life. You shouldn’t wait for a man to give you his approval to do something you love and want to do.
4. Reschedule plans
If your man consistently delays dates and asks you to reschedule plans with your friends and family, he’s not worth your time. Even though it is necessary to spend time with each other, you shouldn’t have to be with him at the expense of cancelling plans with your near ones most of the time.
5. Compromises
Your goals, ambitions, dream job are the fruit of your hard work, determination and patience. You shouldn’t have to give it up just to please or be there for your man. A strong woman would never sacrifice her dreams for a man who interferes and never supports her indevours. Nobody should have to tell you what to do, they can only advise you for the better.
So, ladies realise your potential and don’t run after a man. Be the strongest version of yourself you can be!
