No matter how long you are married, there is always something to learn. Some things are better to know before you are going to build relationships.
In any case, it is better to learn from other people’s mistakes, to read and to take it up here and now, than from the negative experience of your own.
Below are 10 things every woman must learn before marriage.
1. The moment will come and you will realize that the world does not run around you. It is not that just you being selfish, but the marriage is a very new level of dedication. It is going to be hard but you need to remember about it.
2. A man does not need a nanny or a mother. He needs a wife. He needs a partner, the one, who will support him and whom he will supportн. Oftentimes, women like telling a man what to do, getting at him and giving a royal pain in the neck, however, this is wrong.
3. Long-term relationships are built by two people, who are ready to forgive. Even if you marry the best man in the world, he will have disadvantages just like you. To learn how to forgive easily is a necessary criterion to keep relationships.
4. Passion should never fade away. Yes, there will be times, when there are passion and romantics in relationships – it is the last thing you will think of. However, try to keep them alive, it will improve your marriage.
5. Do not build unrealistic expectations.
6. Respect your husband. Nothing will bring him as much pleasure as the feeling of your respect. He might not admit it, but it is really important for him.
7. Do not expect your husband to cater all your needs. There are different people in your life, each of them plays a role of one`s own. Your husband caters your romantic needs, however, do not expect everything from him. You also have a mother, a friend, a sister/a brother.
8. Be realistic when it comes to romantic. It is not a movie and not a book novel but a reality.
9. One should always work over relationships. Do not let chips fall where they may, whatever good everything seems to be.
10. Do not ever compare your husband with someone else. A comparison is a very bad idea; especially when it comes to people, you love. Love and value him just the way he is.
