We have read about unconditional love or watched movies about it that made us dream of a day when we will fall in love with someone without any condition.
The term ‘unconditional love’ itself is self-explanatory—a love that has no condition; perhaps it is the most selfless and purest of love and these exactly are the reasons why people often criticize unconditional love as unreal.
However, we do not want to get into the debate on whether unconditional love is real or not.
What we want to tell our readers is how they can identify unconditional love if they come across it.
So, here are five signs of the purest and most beautiful of love that a person would ever experience.
1. Your partner puts his needs above yours
Do you fight with your partner over which flavour of ice-cream to choose for dessert? While he would tease you and playfully fight to make you choose his favourite flavour, but at last he would eventually give in to your demand to make you happy. This is just a simple example of how a person tries putting your needs over his. If you often find your partner doing the same for you, consider yourself one lucky person.
2. Your partner does not expect anything in return
This is one of the biggest tell-tale signs and the most beautiful thing about unconditional love—your partner never expects anything in return. A person who loves you unconditionally would try to make you happy through small gestures like sending you flowers with a note or bringing home your favourite pastry while returning from office. While they do these small gestures of love, they do not expect anything in return, not even your acknowledgment. If you found someone like this, he is definitely a keeper.
3. Unconditional lovers are most selfless
One who loves you unconditionally does not bind you with any conditions or restrictions. Love for him is all about making you happy because their happiness lies in yours. We tried to find the best example of selfless love and we could not come across a better story than ‘Gift of Magi’ written by O’Henry. In this soul-stirring story, a very poor couple sells their most beloved possession to buys Christmas gifts—the man gives away his heirloom watch and his wife cuts and sells her beautiful, lustrous long hair. Unaware of the sacrifice they had made for each other, the woman buys a watch chain for the husband and the man buys a pair of beautiful comb for his wife. This biggest irony also shows how they loved each other. Such is the power of selfless love. If this is not unconditional love, then what is?
4. A person who loves you unconditionally forgives your mistakes
It is said that a person cannot forgive another if he doesn’t love her truly. Forgiveness is a sign of selfless and true love. A person who loves you unconditionally would forgive your mistakes; although he might be a little offended at first but the love he has for you will make him forgive and forget everything eventually. However, that does not mean you should grow careless and hurt the person by committing consistent mistakes.
5. Unconditional love can make a relationship last forever
Love is what keeps a relationship going. Yes, there are other elements like trust, respect and fidelity that are equally important but when a person loves someone beyond any expectations and without conditions, the other elements would slowly fall into place as well. Such kind of love last for a lifetime and when two people share unconditional love, their relationship is bound to last forever.
